Another weakness I have had over the years is being easily manipulated for money in particular. There are different situations which need to be considered; one of the biggest if a person is truly saved and immature; truly in need or if they are simply using our faith as a weapon against us to control us either in subtle or more blunt ways to get what they want. If someone is a brother or sister in the Lord we have a responsibility to assist those truly in need but even Paul mentioned limits with some who were widows ( 1 Timothy 5:9). It is hard to have a set rule in such instances but we also have a responsibility to disciple and admonish one another when we see areas others need to grow if we truly care for them.
Narcissism isn't an honorable pasttime; and if that is the attitude we see as to a person indicating they can't do wrong (usually badmouthing others for their situation) we should pick up on such behaviours. I pray that the local churches those here attend will have some policy to help those in need; including finding housing even in their own homes if possible. I am glad to see those in my church with adopted and foster kids in particular who have reached out beyond their comfort zones.
I must say that we can never rest on our laurels; so to speak. Now that I have some more financial assets it isn't unexpected that more is asked of me. I will say that as suggested in the last post we should owe no man anything; this is the case when I give to missionaries. High pressure tactics are frequented by some Charities; obviously the poor are always with us; but we should ask for wisdom as the book of James mentions before throwing money around. That includes checking out sites such as C
I felt compelled to respond to your piece on "to give or not to give". Let me just share that in my experience when comes to giving is the fact that situation when I am caught in this dilemma, i always trust the "flow" of events, that will persuade me to dig into my pocket not that I have a lot to give.
The challenge is always whether we are giving right or not, is the question. However, I do notice that there will be times when we give to some which is undesirable or not bona fide, the onus of guilt always lies with the receiver and not the giver. So it is fine as long as we give because we are scam to and gave because we are humane. However, if I am pressurized to give like you mentioned, my nature normally dissuade me from doing so. Thats all I have to say. Have a blessed day my friend.
Another weakness I have had over the years is being easily manipulated for money in particular. There are different situations which need to be considered; one of the biggest if a person is truly saved and immature; truly in need or if they are simply using our faith as a weapon against us to control us either in subtle or more blunt ways to get what they want. If someone is a brother or sister in the Lord we have a responsibility to assist those truly in need but even Paul mentioned limits with some who were widows ( 1 Timothy 5:9). It is hard to have a set rule in such instances but we also have a responsibility to disciple and admonish one another when we see areas others need to grow if we truly care for them.
Narcissism isn't an honorable pasttime; and if that is the attitude we see as to a person indicating they can't do wrong (usually badmouthing others for their situation) we should pick up on such behaviours. I pray that the local churches those here attend will have some policy to help those in need; including finding housing even in their own homes if possible. I am glad to see those in my church with adopted and foster kids in particular who have reached out beyond their comfort zones.
I must say that we can never rest on our laurels; so to speak. Now that I have some more financial assets it isn't unexpected that more is asked of me. I will say that as suggested in the last post we should owe no man anything; this is the case when I give to missionaries. High pressure tactics are frequented by some Charities; obviously the poor are always with us; but we should ask for wisdom as the book of James mentions before throwing money around. That includes checking out sites such as C
I felt compelled to respond to your piece on "to give or not to give". Let me just share that in my experience when comes to giving is the fact that situation when I am caught in this dilemma, i always trust the "flow" of events, that will persuade me to dig into my pocket not that I have a lot to give.
The challenge is always whether we are giving right or not, is the question. However, I do notice that there will be times when we give to some which is undesirable or not bona fide, the onus of guilt always lies with the receiver and not the giver. So it is fine as long as we give because we are scam to and gave because we are humane. However, if I am pressurized to give like you mentioned, my nature normally dissuade me from doing so. Thats all I have to say. Have a blessed day my friend.
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